Are You Coming? by Laura Hiddinga

If you have the anatomy of a female, this book is a must read. Most Americans have some form of sex education in school, and I’d like to think my elementary, middle, and high school lessons on the subject were very good, especially when compared to the curriculum of the nation at large. But I learned things from this book that I did not learn in school. To be fair, I will say that a great deal of the information includes discoveries that were probably made well after I graduated high school. Even so, it’s amazing to me that there are so many more different forms of female pleasure than I was previously aware of. On top of that, science is still waiting to discover even more about the female body. 

If you don’t want to read an entire book on the subject, even just reading one of the chapters could be very enlightening. In these pages you might find the answers to some problems you might be having, or you might learn that something that you personally experience has a name and is experienced by others as well, making you feel less alone or even amongst friends in a way. The book is broken down into the basics, the different types, techniques, how to talk about it, difficulties with it, positions, and devices you can add. For the length of this book, your money is worth what you pay for it. I also love the cover art. The female body being portrayed as a maze that you need the patience and time to navigate is what I believe the author was going for here, in terms of an artistic metaphor. I explore the female body even further with the book I will be discussing next week. I was actually reading the two in tandem and just finished this one first, but they compliment each other very well. I hope you’ll return to see what I have to say about it.

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